Inaccurate Information, or Knowing When to Listen
I still remember the first time I realized that people who sound perfectly confident about what they’re saying are not always correct. It was sometime in my mid-20s (apparently I was a slow learner?)...
View ArticleInsomnia, Thief of Sleep
I started having insomnia a few months after my mom was diagnosed with inflammatory breast cancer. I had moved away to college in late September and she was diagnosed, I believe, in November. By...
View ArticleWords Matter
Thank goodness for Jonathan Carroll and his Facebook page, because whenever my brain is feeling slow, I take a look at what he has posted recently to get my thoughts flowing again. Recently he shared...
View ArticleHow to Be a Kindred Spirit
Definition of kindred spirit: “A bosom friend–an intimate friend, you know–a really kindred spirit to whom I can confide my inmost soul. I’ve dreamed of meeting her all my life.” – Anne to Marilla in...
View ArticleThoughts on Being Professional
I ran across an excellent article on an economics blog I follow called “Amateurs versus Professionals.” It very much applies to what I’ve observed about writing, and I imagine it holds true for many...
View ArticleThe Secret Keeper
Theodora Goss’s latest post cracked my head open, and thoughts have been pouring out ever since. There are at least three essays I could write in response to it. This is one of them. It is about...
View ArticleI Don’t Know What It’s Like
I’ve written this blog post so many times in my head, and every time I end up crushing it into a metaphorical paper ball and throwing it in the trash. Because every one of them ends up sounding as if I...
View ArticleThe Most Boring Question of All Time
On a great date, the conversation will flow, there will be a bunch of questions you want to ask and a bunch of topics you want to pursue, and it will end with a continued sense of fascination about the...
View ArticleOn Conflicting Advice
In the past, I have had people take advice I didn’t mean to give from this blog. I rarely mean to give advice. When I sit down to write, I’m not thinking, “Now then, let me tell people how I think they...
View ArticleOn Depth in Friendships
I am interested in depth. I was talking to a friend who was sad because she had wanted to spend all day with a close friend of hers, and then that friend booked herself so they’d only have a few hours...
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